

Whoever you consider family, keep them first and remind them of their importance. You deserve to have everything you’ve ever wanted, and don’t sell yourself short by just settling for things because it seems convenient.ġ2. Don’t settle for anything less than your biggest dreams (just use the opportunities as stepping stones to get you there). Don’t settle for a boy just because you need someone. Constantly showing support for your community and volunteering is enough to give back to your community.įor anything. You don’t have to just give money, but by doing things like volunteering to help in a local park or helping with fundraising for the children still in that town. They gave you so much in your time of getting here, so give back to them while you can. It helps you grow and become a more diverse person. Try new things and meet new people outside of your comfort zone. Go out and try a new restaurant with food from a different culture, go on a hike somewhere you’ve never been, talk to people you wouldn’t normally talk to. Try new things outside of your comfort zone. Work hard, give your all to small things, and take on new roles as you adapt to the others.Ĩ. Taking on every leadership role may look good, but when you try to give 100 percent to each one, you’ll wear yourself too thin. It’s important to work hard and gain a good work ethic, but don’t exhaust yourself while trying to do it. We all think working hard and doing everything we can is our human nature. Be a hard worker, but don’t wear yourself too thin. It may help you grow in ways you never imagined and allows you to learn about things you may have been blind to before. Join an organization maybe you thought you never would and learn more about what they do and what they stand for. Get involved in many organizations each one has their own leadership opportunities to help you, too.

How do you expect to achieve your biggest goals if you sell yourself short every time? Dream big, give yourself something to work for and be proud of yourself when you finally accomplish those dreams. Laugh at yourself and move on!ĭon’t think you can’t succeed if you create dreams too big for yourself. Remember The THOT Walk is just a moment that will pass. Go home and order Jimmy John with your roommate! Jimmy and John will always have your back. If you had way too much to drink do not leave with a stranger. Live life while you can but stay safe! Let a girlfriend know you are leaving and with whom. DO NOT BE ASHAMED! You just got laid and had a wild night.Poke him till he wakes up and tell him you are leaving. Don't just walk out without saying goodbye or even a thank you for not murdering you in your sleep.Remember you do not have to rush out of there. Rub that make up off, splash some water on your face, untangle your hair, and give yourself a pep talk. If you can't find your own clothes, get creative! Practice your awesome ABC party skills.Greek sheet robe anyone? or just take his sweatshirt and basketball shorts.Always have a condom on you! Safe sex is the only way to have sex.Being stranded somewhere is a no-no! If you have friends with a car, do not be afraid to ask them for help. Cash: Always have at least five bucks for a cab fare.There are a few Do’s and Don’ts of The Walk of Shame, follow these and you will strut home. This moment is only insulting if you let it be. With this being said, the shame is all in your head. This might seem like a nightmare to you, and trust me, stealing his jacket to cover up your embarrassed self will not make the audience waiting outside think any different of you. The point is most men and women in college will end up doing the walk of shame at least once in their four years of college.

For this circumstance, I'm sure this is what people think of females who are doing the walk of shame. I made it home without ending up on national television and now 2 years later, I can finally laugh at myself.įor those of you who are not aware a, “THOT” is “that hoe over there”. Want to know the best part? ESPN was at the Mountain Lair for Game Day! Crowds of children, parents, and students were rolling by and there was little old me, in a mini skirt, five and a half inch pumps, and too much cleavage for day light.

In my personal experiences, nothing beats waking up in a shady part of town (South Park) and hiking a couple miles to my house.
